Not a top or a bottom? You might be a side. A plain-English guide to what “side” means, where the term came from, and how to tell if it’s you.

Top, bottom, vers, side… confused? A clear, judgment-free guide to the four gay sexual roles and how to find the one that fits you.

Not sure if you’re a side? Take this quick, judgment-free quiz to find out whether the label fits, and what your result actually means.

“Side” is gay slang for a guy who enjoys sex without anal. A quick, clear rundown of the term, its origin, and the words that go with it.