Stories, guides and honest conversations for and from sides
What Is a Side? Gay Sexual Roles Beyond Top and Bottom
Not a top or a bottom? You might be a side. A plain-English guide to what “side” means, where the term came from, and how to tell if it’s you.
Side, Top, Bottom, or Vers? The Gay Sexual Roles Explained
Top, bottom, vers, side… confused? A clear, judgment-free guide to the four gay sexual roles and how to find the one that fits you.
Am I a Side? Take the Quiz
Not sure if you’re a side? Take this quick, judgment-free quiz to find out whether the label fits, and what your result actually means.
Side Meaning: Gay Slang, Explained
“Side” is gay slang for a guy who enjoys sex without anal. A quick, clear rundown of the term, its origin, and the words that go with it.