Sex and beyond

It’s not just about getting off, either. A big part of being a side is the stuff nobody really talks about: how to bring it up on a first date, how to find guys who are actually on the same page, how to stop feeling like you’re the only one. Some guys here are looking for a hookup. Some want something that lasts. Both are welcome, and neither is treated like the lesser option.

we’re building the first community for sides

So we’re building a few things at once. Guides that explain what mainstream gay culture skips over. Stories from real sides, so it feels less like uncharted territory. And a place to actually meet people who get it, without you having to explain yourself first.

We’re just getting started, and it’s better with more of us in it. Join the waitlist and you’re in from the beginning.